Thrangu Sekhar Retreat, Nepal, 24th January 2022
Today a Chinese nun came to see for advice about where to go for the dharma. She said since it seems like she doesn’t have the opportunity to stay here in the retreat centre, where could she go to get good opportunities for the dharma. I was stumped, I didn’t know what to say. The […]
Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Centre, Nepal, 25th January 2022
If you are going to approach a lama with a request for teachings, it is best to approach them with humility and conduct yourself humbly. That is if you think that the lama has the mentality of a real practitioner and you truly wish to be taken on as a student. I wouldn’t advise approaching […]
Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Centre, Nepal, 10th September 2021
In its simplest form, to recognise the nature of mind is to recognise the thoughts that run through our head and our habitual ways of thinking. It’s impossible to recognise the true nature of mind without first recognising the grosser nature of mind. The role of the lama is to first introduce us to the […]
Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Centre, Nepal, 21st July 2021
In Tibetan Buddhist circles you hear many people theses days referring to their lama as Buddha so-and-so, or Dorje Chang so-and-so. But in truth only those who have attained accomplishment can see their lamas as Dorje Chang, Vajradhara. Ordinary beings cannot. I think I have quite strong faith in my Lamas, I think it would […]
Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Centre, Nepal, 3rd June 2021
In the Buddhist view we each have to take responsibility for ourselves. We cannot expect the Buddha to bless us out of our suffering. For example, Devadatta was born in hell before the Buddha’s very eyes and the Buddha couldn’t stop it from happening. We each experience the results of our own actions. What the […]
Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Centre, Nepal, 14th March 2021
Whether we come to have a good understanding of the dharma or not is determined by how well we are able to understand the intention of the lama who is teaching us. In truth, what we are trying to learn in the dharma is nothing other than the intention and view of the lama. It […]
Online Teaching from Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Centre, Nepal, 12 June 2020
It is difficult to determine whether a lama is good or not, because we only see the outside. But that which makes someone a genuine lama lies inside. We are told that we need to examine the lama, but in order to do this effectively we have to be quite knowledgable about the dharma. These […]
Online Teaching from Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Centre, Nepal, 10 June 2020
When we hear that Tilopa received teaching directly from Vajradhara, it is difficult to understand. We think the three kayas of a buddha are different buddhas, teaching in different places at different times. But in reality it is not like this, it is simultaneous. What we perceive depends on our level, our perception. Those with […]
Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Centre, Nepal, 23 August 2020
Having the name “lama”, I don’t see myself as someone who tells others what to do and what not to do, like a boss. I feel more like a servant. I try to carry myself with the thought that I will do whatever I can to help any being for them to turn out better […]
Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Centre, Nepal, 19 August 2020
A good lama will not teach the dharma easily, to just any student. Feeling that we can get dharma whenever and wherever we want is a sign that the dharma has become devalued. A genuine lama, like Milarepa, Gampopa, or Patrul Rinpoche, will not teach the dharma lightly. For example, when they detected a hint […]
Online Teaching from Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Centre, Nepal, 9 June 2020
Our experience is not determined by what is seemingly outside, but by our own perception. For example, when a lama is teaching, they probably have no thought of pleasing some and upsetting others, but that’s what inevitably happens. One person will appreciate it, and another will get up and walk out in a rage. Each […]
Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Center, Nepal, 27th April 2020
For those aspiring to practice the dharma there is nothing more important than meeting a good lama.
Thrangu Sekhar Retreat Center, Nepal, 10th February 2020
The word for dharma in Tibetan is ཆོས་ (chö), which is related to the word འཆོས, which means to repair or to correct. When I see those who consider themselves students of mine conducting themselves unskilfully, I may well tell them that they are doing wrong, with the hope that they will see why it […]
Kagyu Samye Ling, Scotland, 12 October 2017
Money becomes a real obstacle in forming a true lama-student relationship. So if it’s real dharma you want, if it’s a real lama-student relationship you want, then this is something you should keep in mind. For example, if you see me to be a lama of yours, and you genuinely wish to rely on and […]
I only fear two things, I am scared of my lamas because they have been so good to me. They have helped me with my way of thinking so that now I know I won’t be overwhelmed by the hardships of this life, even if I do hit hard times I do not dwell on […]
